A young Stirling woman remembered as “a beautiful soul who was kind, compassionate, and endlessly giving” will help others with sight loss to live life more fully thanks to funds raised in her memory.
Aileen Bonner, who would have celebrated her 33rd birthday on February 20, died suddenly last month.
But a fundraiser by her colleagues at the Stirling Waitrose store has already raised enough to sponsor three guide dogs – a lasting legacy which has brought some comfort to her proud but devastated family.
Aileen was born and lived all her life in Raploch and attended Raploch Nursery, Raploch Primary School and Wallace High School before qualifying in Hospitality at Forth Valley College, working first at Stirling University then joining Waitrose 12 years ago.
She had been unwell with flu-like symptoms in the week leading up to her passing, making her death both sudden and deeply unexpected to everyone, including her doctors.
She was first diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at the age of 18 but faced the life-changing moment “with remarkable strength”.
In 2020/2021, Aileen began experiencing issues with her vision, which gradually worsened.
She lost the sight in her left eye due to scarring of the cornea, and within a year, she sadly lost vision in her right eye as well, leaving her almost completely blind. She was officially registered blind in December 2023.
Throughout this incredibly challenging time, Aileen endured painful eye ulcers and other debilitating conditions that caused her significant discomfort.
Yet, her loved ones say she faced every hardship “with extraordinary courage and resilience”.
The family told the Observer: “Despite all she went through, Aileen remained the same loving, caring, and compassionate person she had always been. Her unwavering strength in the face of adversity was a true testament to her character, inspiring everyone who knew her.”
Aileen’s family say the generosity shown in her memory has been “truly overwhelming”.
What began as a sponsorship for one guide dog has now surpassed all expectations, with the potential to support the training of three guide dogs – an incredible testament to the impact Aileen had on those who knew her.
Her family said: “This brings us great comfort.
“The choice to support the Guide Dogs charity holds deep personal meaning for our family. After losing her sight, Aileen found it incredibly difficult to cope with the loss of her independence, often feeling unable to leave the house without her mum Alexis by her side.
“She was on the waiting list and being considered for a guide dog of her own, a step that would have given her back a sense of freedom, confidence, and the opportunity to regain her independence.
“Most importantly, it could have helped her return to her much-loved job at Waitrose, a place she missed dearly and where she felt truly valued.
“Our entire family is profoundly touched by the kindness and generosity shown by everyone who has donated to this wonderful charity, one that was so close to Aileen’s heart.
“We would also like to express our heartfelt thanks to Fiona MacDonald, Aileen’s friend and colleague, and the Waitrose Partnership for their support and for setting up this incredible tribute in her honour. Their compassion and thoughtfulness mean the world to us.”
Aileen shared an exceptionally close bond with her entire family, holding a special place in the hearts of all who loved her. She was a devoted and loving daughter to her parents, Alexis and Paul, and an “incredible” sister to her younger brother Scott and older brother John.
As a sister-in-law to Natalie, she was both “kind and thoughtful, enriching their relationship with her genuine spirit”.
The family said: “Everyone in our family held a special place in Aileen’s heart, but she shared an especially close bond with her disabled uncle, Crawford. She truly loved him and cherished the time they spent together, offering him daily care with unwavering dedication and compassion.
“Aileen also adored her beloved Jack Russell, Hooper, who brought her immense joy and companionship.
“However, it was her role as an auntie to her nephew Justin, and niece Sophie, that truly highlighted the kind of person she was. She was an incredible aunt, pouring her heart into every moment she shared with them. The love, care, and, most importantly, the time she devoted to them were nothing short of breathtaking, creating memories that will be treasured forever.”
Aileen’s warmth extended beyond her family. When out and about with her mum, Alexis, it was not uncommon for her to be stopped in the street by customers from Waitrose, eager to chat.
Her family added: “Her kindness left a lasting impression wherever she went, and her genuine nature drew people to her effortlessly. She was one of the most courageous and strong young women we have ever known, facing every challenge in her life with grace and resilience.
“No matter how unwell she felt, how busy she was, or whether she knew someone personally, she would go out of her way to help anyone who needed it.
“Aileen also had a wonderful sense of humour – her infectious laughter and quick wit could brighten even the darkest of days.
“Though her time with us was far too short, her presence will remain a cherished part of our lives forever.”
The family say, although Aileen never liked to be the centre of attention, they believe she would be both overwhelmed and deeply touched by the kindness and generosity shown in her name.
“The support extended to our family and to the charity that meant so much to her is a testament to the beautiful legacy she leaves behind.
“We are forever grateful to everyone who has honoured her memory with such heartfelt compassion.”
To donate to the fundraising effort visit: https://www.justgiving.com/page/fiona-macdonald-1?utm_medium=FR&utm_source=FB&utm_campaign