A man has been left utterly bewildered after his wife suggested he sleep with her best friend to help her get pregnant and have a ‘beautiful’ child.
The 34-year-old husband shared on Reddit that he and his wife Emily, 33, have been married for seven years and have two children together.
They are close with Emily’s college friend, Sarah, 34, who is considering having a child by herself. He described their unique relationship, saying: “We’ve had an unconventional but incredible relationship that includes her college best friend Sarah.”
He recounted how their connection with Sarah evolved from a one-time fling to her being an integral part of their family life. “What started as a drunken threesome in Cancun during spring break evolved into an amazing dynamic between the three of us. Sarah’s been like a second mum to our kids since day one. She’s there for every birthday, every milestone, and even helps with nighttime routines when she stays over.”
He spoke fondly of Sarah, noting, “The kids adore their ‘Aunt Sarah’. She’s independent, successful, and has never wanted to settle down but lately, she’s been talking about wanting a baby.” However, the situation took a surprising turn when, after tucking the children into bed, Emily proposed to him the idea of being Sarah’s sperm donor.
He continued: “Emily said something that’s been keeping me up. ‘What if Mark was your donor? ‘ she said to Sarah. ‘You’ve seen what amazing kids he makes,’ she added with a wink. I nearly choked on my drink. But as the conversation developed, it was clear this wasn’t just a passing thought.”
“They’d been discussing it for weeks. Sarah’s been researching sperm banks but feels uncomfortable with the idea of an anonymous donor. Emily thinks it’s perfect, Sarah gets a baby from someone she knows and trusts, and our children would have a half-sibling they already love.”
“The kicker? They don’t want to do it through a clinic. They want to do it ‘naturally’ because of our existing dynamic. Emily says it would be more meaningful, more intimate. Sarah blushed when she agreed, saying she’d prefer it this way too.” He added: “Unable to contain her excitement about the idea, Emily spoke about how ‘great’ it would be for their children to have a half-sibling at Sarah’s house, and brainstorming the future family holidays they could go on together.”
“What’s messing with my head is how excited Emily gets talking about it. She can’t hide the excitement at the idea of me getting her best friend pregnant, just like she was when we were trying for our kids. Sarah keeps giving me these shy looks that drive me crazy, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t attracted to the idea.”
“I know I should probably say no. This could complicate everything. But watching them plan and discuss it, seeing how much they both want this… I’m seriously considering it. The thought of having another child, this time with Sarah, with Emily’s blessing and enthusiasm, is starting to feel right in a way I never expected.”
Concerned about potential legal consequences, he’s opted to consult a lawyer regarding the peculiar pact. Gradually warming to the concept, he’s taken his dilemma to social media seeking the wisdom of users.
One respondent firmly advised, “It would be a no from me. For the kids sake.” Another added their take, saying, “You’re better than me I’d be telling this story in the past tense because it would’ve already happened.” And a third cautioned, “Don’t do it. There will be lot of jealousy games in coming years and you will not be to focus on other areas of life.”