Stag dos are notorious for their wild antics but, according to a male stripper, it’s the hen parties that people should be wary of.
Nath Wyld, 31, has shared what really goes down when women gather to celebrate their friend’s final night of singlehood. Based on his decade-long experience in stripping, he claims they can be quite scandalous.
Typically, he said everyone’s quite drunk, and there seems to be an unspoken rule that “what happens here, stays here.” In fact, he confessed that he’d estimate at least one in every 10 brides-to-be cheat.
The stripper, from Melbourne, initially took up the profession as a weekend job. At the time, he was working as a carpenter, and stripping was just a way to earn some extra money.
“When I started OnlyFans, and was making good money on that, it became my full-time job,” he exclusively revealed. “Now I earn around $250,000 (AUD) a year on it.”
Discussing the types of hen parties he attends, he added: “There’s sort of two types of hens parties. One’s going to be loud, crazy, full on and then, you know, they’re doing whatever they want, giving it a good crack. The other is quiet, chill, and not so much of a party vibe but, I would say in general, mostly the hens are getting drunk, having a good time, and being crazy.”
When he turns up for work, he mentioned that most people are pleased to see him there. After all, many women are thrilled, as they’re looking to enjoy themselves.
It becomes more challenging when some people are less welcoming or not as inebriated, Nath admitted, noting that these situations can become “awkward”. Nonetheless, a good time is often still had by all. Some parties, however, occasionally get overly boisterous.
Nath explained: “There’s always going to be that one person in every group that wants to go too far, and thinks they can get away with it. When you’re doing a strip, they think they can do whatever to you during the show, and it sort of wrecks the show a little bit.
“They’ll grab what they’re not supposed to, or they’ll be silly and try and get away with something that a male couldn’t get away with if it was a female performer. That’s not all the time, that’s a bit more few and far between, but it has definitely happened.
“They definitely try and take advantage of the opportunity in front of them.”
He also confessed that some may stray from their partners, possibly because they believe they won’t encounter him again, feeling it “doesn’t matter”. When people travel from another area for a weekend getaway, the likelihood of infidelity can increase, according to Nath.
He observed that there is often a “group mentality” regarding cheating. Once one person in the party strays, it seemingly gives permission for others to follow suit.
Nath said: “Women cheating is definitely something that has happened and I’ve definitely seen it. There’s also been lots of stories with my co-workers that I’ve heard.
“I wouldn’t say it’s super common and happens every single time, but maybe it happens somewhere from one in 10 to one in 15 groups. I think it’s the situation they’re in – everyone’s having a good time, everyone’s drinking.
“I think they just let their inhibitions go, and they don’t really think of the consequences of it coming out. I think they just sort of have the mindset of ‘oh, it’s only gonna happen here, it’ll be okay and it’ll never be talked about or done again’.
“When they are drunk and having a good time – they don’t think of the consequences.”