Matt Le Tissier’s daughter-in-law has spoken out about the severe impact that relentless trolling and criticism over her sex work has had on her.
She revealed that social services have contacted her 12 times since 2022 due to various disturbing allegations, including an initial claim about her husband, Mitch, hitting their children, and a more recent accusation of her producing adult content in front of them.
This has led to such stress that her kids have had to change schools. The Southampton-based mother-of-four strongly denies any wrongdoing and suspects that the person making these sinister calls wishes her harm. Following advice from social services, she has now involved the police to investigate the matter.
Alex, 32, has kept silent on the issue until now. In an interview with the Mirror, she explained her decision to speak up: “After my mental health hit rock bottom in November I want to take control of my life. I am the victim of harassment and have nothing to hide. I have done nothing wrong so feel it is the right time to talk about it.”
Her breaking point came when she received a call from social services claiming her home was “unsafe”, based on hearsay, which they later deemed to be malicious. However, just six days after this incident, another call came through with fresh accusations related to her OnlyFans activities.
Alex also shared a distressing account of how anonymous harassment affected her, opening up about the fear she felt for the safety of her children, leading her to sleep outside their rooms. She suspects she’s being targeted due to her job, started during the financial difficulties of the pandemic to support her family.
In a candid discussion, Alex said: “I can’t believe people hate me so much that they want the most precious people in my life to be essentially taken away. I genuinely thought about killing myself last November and rarely left the house due to poor mental health. All because I’m a sex worker.”
Multiple nuisance calls in November prompted Alex to lodge a complaint with the police for harassment. The origin of the harassment remains unknown, but Alex speculates it could range from acquaintances in Southampton to faceless online harassers, potentially using untraceable phones to contact social services.
Describing her torment, Alex expressed: “I feel like they want me dead because my children are the most important thing to me. I feel like they can’t get to me in any other way so this is how they are going to do it. That might come across as being dramatic but if you think about it, these people are essentially trying to take my children away from me. They are the most precious people in my life. And as a mother that is so hurtful and it has destroyed me mentally.”
The mum disclosed that her three youngest children are oblivious to her work on OnlyFans while sharing the painful conversations she’s had with her eldest teenage girl. “I’ve spoken to her about what is going on and how upsetting it is,” she said.
“She is absolutely appalled and she reassures me that we are great parents and we have never made her unsafe or put her in harm’s way. She is so shocked at how hateful people can be about my job and she really doesn’t like how people treat me. She is not ashamed of me in any way and she says she is very proud to be my daughter and doesn’t understand the hate.”
Alex revealed she moved her children to a new school after their previous school allegedly pulled them from class with inquiries such as “does mammy ever take men to the house”.
The head of the new school, she notes, is exceedingly understanding and up to speed with the social services calls; her profession does not alter the treatment she or her children receive.
Addressing the person behind this turmoil, she firmly states: “My message to them is that the police are now involved and we will be taking this seriously.
“I am asking them to stop doing this. This is wasting resources that are extremely important, it is wasting social services time, wasting police time, and there are children out there who are truly suffering and need assistance and being abused and you are diverting attention from those poor children.
“So please stop attacking me and my family. It is absolutely disgusting what you are doing. Children really need help out there and we should all be focused on those children needing help. Not my children because my children are happy, healthy, very loved, very cared for, and if you know my children you will know this, because they are just incredible.”
She went on to describe the actions against her as a direct attack on her children, questioning the morality of those involved. Alex said: “It is an attack on my children and I see it that way. I don’t think you are a normal person for doing that. I would never do this to my worst enemy, I would never make a malicious call to social services, that is just disgusting.”
Alex commended social services for their support and understanding, noting their apologies with each call and the lack of necessity for in-person visits.
She added: “They have assured me that doing OnlyFans is none of their business, as long as my children have absolutely nothing to do with it, which obviously is the case.”
“They don’t see my content and they don’t see me filming content. But what I do is no one’s business. I don’t understand why people always make the connection with children and sex work, to a normal person, if you rationalise it, that is not normal.”
“Why are you inserting children into sex work? The two are completely separate and I shouldn’t’ even have to point that out. My children have absolutely nothing to do with my OnlyFans and it is crazy that I even have to say that.
“But I feel it is important to show the length people will go to with discrimination against sex workers.”
The Mirror reached out to the Hampshire and Isle of Wight Constabulary for a response to claims made in this story.
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